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How to find your third place in the Charlotte area

Third places are public, informal gathering spaces that you frequent in your community.

Freedom Park in Charlotte with a lake and trees.

Nature lovers will find comfort visiting Freedom Park

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Do you have a third place around Charlotte? Take a moment to reflect. Besides your home (first space) and workplace (second space), where do you go throughout the week? Whose faces do you see and who do you talk to when you go there? Is the vibe at this space easy, non-pressuring, and potentially playful? Do you look forward to going and feel welcome?

If you answered these questions with one spot in mind, congratulations, you’ve already found your third place. If you didn’t, that’s okay. We’ve got ideas to help you find one.

What’s a third place?

Ray Oldenburg, a sociologist who wrote about third places in his book, “The Great Good Place” shares that third places are public, informal gathering spaces you frequent in your community (think: coffee shops, parks, libraries, churches, etc.). They’re important for many reasons, particularly because they promote social vitality + a sense of community.

The inside of Amelie French Bakery with a cafe counter in the background, people at booths and tables, and chandeliers handing from the ceiling.

City Editor Jack can always relax at Amelie’s French Bakery.

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City Editor Jack is a fan of relaxing or getting work done at Amelie’s French Bakery and Café. If you feel better surrounded by the smell of coffee, check out our guide to local coffee shops to find a cozy spot to sip.

City Editor Maria takes comfort in axe throwing and enjoys socializing with other throwers in groups that visit facilities in Charlotte. Perhaps that’s not your activity of choice — but you can find a league of like minded folks on Meetup or Adults Play Sports.

Find your third place in Charlotte

Along with our editors’ suggestions, we have more ideas to get you started on your third place journey.

Pro tip: Local Facebook groups are a low-lift way to explore the city and put yourself out there.

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