Do you have a third place around Charlotte? Take a moment to reflect. Besides your home (first space) and workplace (second space), where do you go throughout the week? Whose faces do you see and who do you talk to when you go there? Is the vibe at this space easy, non-pressuring, and potentially playful? Do you look forward to going and feel welcome?
If you answered these questions with one spot in mind, congratulations, you’ve already found your third place. If you didn’t, that’s okay. We’ve got ideas to help you find one.
What’s a third place?
Ray Oldenburg, a sociologist who wrote about third places in his book, “The Great Good Place” shares that third places are public, informal gathering spaces you frequent in your community (think: coffee shops, parks, libraries, churches, etc.). They’re important for many reasons, particularly because they promote social vitality + a sense of community.
City Editors’ picks
City Editor Jack is a fan of relaxing or getting work done at Amelie’s French Bakery and Café. If you feel better surrounded by the smell of coffee, check out our guide to local coffee shops to find a cozy spot to sip.
City Editor Maria takes comfort in axe throwing and enjoys socializing with other throwers in groups that visit facilities in Charlotte. Perhaps that’s not your activity of choice — but you can find a league of like minded folks on Meetup or Adults Play Sports.
Find your third place in Charlotte
Along with our editors’ suggestions, we have more ideas to get you started on your third place journey.
- Love live music? Rock out at a local music venue and discover new talent.
- Foodies may find comfort going to their favorite restaurant, but if you don’t have a go-to spot, find one by grabbing brunch or a meal under $15.
- Relax in nature by exploring one — or all — of Charlotte’s parks or by hiking your way through the city.
- If it’s movement you’re after, travel with your friends in a local running group.
Pro tip: Local Facebook groups are a low-lift way to explore the city and put yourself out there.
